Celebrating 8 years with the man who made me say "YES!"

It's not yet 8 years wedding anniversary but 8 years of committing to each other .

I just wanna say Happy 8 years anniversary to my hubby- the only man who made me say "YES" to the right question "Do you want to be my girlfriend?"

All the rest of my suitors screamed to my face how much they love me but never asked me the right question. Why would they expect me to say "Yes" to them which in fact they never stated the right question at the first place. They say "I love you"...what would they expect me to say? Of course, I'll say "Thanks for loving me". They couldn't expect to say to them that I love them too coz loving someone takes time...it's not only feelings...it's a DECISION!

One thing that made me agree to my hubby to be his girlfriend at the first place is the assurance that he'll let me go if I see that our relationship isn't working even if it hurts him a lot. This makes me comfortable and relax because I have trauma of past experiences of suitors claiming that they can't live without me (hey, why would I risk myself to commit to a suicidal person...no way!). My hubby is the only suitor who said that he's choosing me to be the woman whom he'll bring to the altar of marriage if our relationship works out. This is what my father used to tell us that upon courting when the man mentioned about an intention to marry the one that he courted, he's sincere and responsible! This makes me take a second look to my dear hubby and started to grow in love with him...(I'll not use fall in love here but instead growing in love...he..he..I just don't like the idea of falling- it hurts...LOL!) He made a lasting impression to me!

To you my dear, I love you so much! Losing you means forgetting how to breath!

We are trying to reminisce September 2, 2001 at 8 pm when we finally decided to love and respect each other. That is the day that I became your girlfriend and you became my boyfriend and now we are ONE. I thank God for answering my prayer that He'll bring into my life the ONE that He has chosen for me.

We thank you LORD for being the only 3rd party in this relationship that makes our bonding stronger and sweeter each day.

Happy 8th Anniversary my dear!